You are the most invigorating writer I can ever imagine! I can't wait until the next day to read your blog. You are so down to earth and believe it or not everything is so true! I wish you were MY girlfriend.... keep it up girl!
Jim -- I do type at a decent clip, but it's not like I plan the posts out or anything. I generally know what I'm thinking of and fortunately think in a linear manner. But I force myself to write daily. Work ethic.
April -- Thanks. I've never gone for the experimentation into the realm of the BDSM lifestyle, personally, but if that was something I began thinking of exploring with a lover, I'd definitely want to have parameters to work in -- not only for the safety factor of kind of knowing where I was going, but for the anticipation of knowing it, too.
It's like travelling; sometimes it's easier to look forwards to your trip abroad when you know where you'll be visiting and staying.
Or so I think. The trick is, leaving enough flex for change.
Anytime, baby. Thanks for the question, since it got those wheels turning.
People need to realize that comments and questions are so damned important in this realm of give-and-take blogging. We're different from the regular media in that you have a very, very easy way of interacting with us and creating the direction in which we take our work.
The question is, is that important to you, the reader? It's sure important to me, the writer.
A fabulous, very hot idea. And very steamily described, too. Thanks.
Kind of reminds me of this "sex experts" show I saw on HBO where they had a couple make lifesize body tracings of themselves on paper and then mark up all the areas where they like being touched, and all the ways/techniques they wanted to have that part touched. Also marked all the "stay away from" areas. Then the couple got together and looked at their "pleasure diagrams" together. You could see them getting turned on just by the conversation.
I finally read this. Thanks for pointing it out. What I really like here is the non-threatening way you can communicate what turns you on. My wife has a hard time verbalizing her turn-ons. This would be a good way for her to check them off and have me read them.
You are the most invigorating writer I can ever imagine! I can't wait until the next day to read your blog. You are so down to earth and believe it or not everything is so true! I wish you were MY girlfriend.... keep it up girl!
ReplyDeleteThat idea fucking rocks!!! Makes me wish I had a girlfriend to try it out with. But I will be keeping it in mind for future reference.
ReplyDeleteI agree with vagueboy...definitely keeping this one in mind for the future.
ReplyDeletei love this idea. will try it with my girl when i get a chance!
ReplyDeleteJim -- I do type at a decent clip, but it's not like I plan the posts out or anything. I generally know what I'm thinking of and fortunately think in a linear manner. But I force myself to write daily. Work ethic.
ReplyDeleteGlad you enjoy it. :)
Anon -- LOL. Thanks. :) I'm glad you're a regular reader. Down-to-earth? Nice compliment, thank you.
Vagueboy -- Heh. :) Yep, make a mental note... or maybe you could have a little fun hunting the book down now for when you land a chick?
MC & Anon -- Coolio. Glad you're both liking it. :)
SUCH a great idea...and what a way to open up the experimentation in your relationship.
ReplyDeleteApril -- Thanks. I've never gone for the experimentation into the realm of the BDSM lifestyle, personally, but if that was something I began thinking of exploring with a lover, I'd definitely want to have parameters to work in -- not only for the safety factor of kind of knowing where I was going, but for the anticipation of knowing it, too.
ReplyDeleteIt's like travelling; sometimes it's easier to look forwards to your trip abroad when you know where you'll be visiting and staying.
Or so I think. The trick is, leaving enough flex for change.
Steff,
ReplyDeleteThanks for the well-thought-out suggestion. We will try it!
~JAFF
Anytime, baby. Thanks for the question, since it got those wheels turning.
ReplyDeletePeople need to realize that comments and questions are so damned important in this realm of give-and-take blogging. We're different from the regular media in that you have a very, very easy way of interacting with us and creating the direction in which we take our work.
The question is, is that important to you, the reader? It's sure important to me, the writer.
So, thanks.
A fabulous, very hot idea. And very steamily described, too. Thanks.
ReplyDeleteKind of reminds me of this "sex experts" show I saw on HBO where they had a couple make lifesize body tracings of themselves on paper and then mark up all the areas where they like being touched, and all the ways/techniques they wanted to have that part touched. Also marked all the "stay away from" areas. Then the couple got together and looked at their "pleasure diagrams" together. You could see them getting turned on just by the conversation.
I finally read this. Thanks for pointing it out. What I really like here is the non-threatening way you can communicate what turns you on. My wife has a hard time verbalizing her turn-ons. This would be a good way for her to check them off and have me read them.
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